In our modern American culture, adolescent dating is generally accepted as the "norm." While we acknowledge the prevalence of teenage dating, we reject it as a necessary tool in learning to relate to members of the opposite sex. Indeed, we are convinced that "recreational dating" as practiced in our country often hinders a young person's academic and spiritual growth, and may prematurely place the individual in an emotionally intimate relationship. Furthermore, we are convinced that this practice contributes to the high divorce rate which plagues our country today.
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We recognize that God has placed within young people an interest in the opposite sex. We certainly do not strive to eradicate normal, healthy development within our teenage students, but we do desire to help them channel their energy and interests in a God and peer-honoring way. We have deliberately created a learning environment which encourages teenagers to develop healthy friendships with their fellow students without the pressures associated with pairing off. The "level playing field" that has developed at C.E.A. over the past few years is tremendously liberating for our teens. Since none of our families embrace high school dating, students are free to enjoy relationships with brothers and sisters in Christ without the pressures, and yes, temptations associated with dating.

It should be noted that we do not "de-Christianize" any parents for their acceptance of dating, as we recognize that there are many dedicated Christians who permit their teens to date. Teen dating is a personal preference issue, and parents must seek God's guidance for their own children. At the same time, families interested in enrolling their children at C.E.A. must share views and goals similar to ours in order to be a good "fit" for this program. Our families have deliberately chosen to "swim against the tide" in relationship to dating, and thus we strive to clearly articulate our goals in this area so that parents understand the type of environment provided. If you have any questions or comments concerning this important aspect of the program, please feel free to contact us.